Does all that make sense? If a real picture is, needed, I can get one.
In the picture below I believe I have the one that goes up to the relay, and the one that goes down to the alt....but not the one to the regulator

Second question...do I NEED that metal plate for the back of the alt? Is that some sort of grounding point? If so, does anyone have that they can fedex me priority? The wires for the alt are color coded with the wire and plastic deal right?
And last but not least, the (what I believe to be a relay) inside the larger circle, what exactly is that? Can I ask for one at the parts store? And if it comes down to it, does anyone have one?