To remove the headlight knob you reach under the dash and push a small button on top of the switch. Hold that switch down and pull the knob/shaft out. Then to remove the switch you just use a large screwdriver and unscrew the inner bevel retainer and remove the switch.
To remove the windshield wiper switch bezel, I've used needle-nose pliers and flat-tip screwdrivers....but I've never been able to get them removed without boogering them up. That's why you just can't beat the proper tool:
The tool is available from Eastwood for $17:
http://www.eastwoodco.com/jump.jsp?item ... pe=PRODUCT
To remove the lighter you simply unscrew the back lighter retainer from the socket. Hold the socket by sticking your finger in there (be sure you unplug it first!) and then reach up under the dash to unscrew it.
The rest of the knobs are simply held on with a small Allen-head screw, loosen it up with an Allen wrench and pull off, then unscrew the bezel.